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No need for an introduction here. Let’s just go straight to work. So here it is… The top 5 qualities women find attractive in a man.
1. A man who is a leader (“leader of men”)
2. A man who is wanted by other women (“preselection”)
3. A man who is a “protector of his loved ones”
4. A man who has the “willingness to emote”
5. A man who has the “willingness to walk away”
Now let me talk a little about attraction. In order to really let this sink into your head, you have to believe this truth…
“Attraction is not a choice.”
If an attractive woman were to walk by you, you would automatically feel attracted. That doesn’t necessarily mean anything would happen next, but the fact remains that her physical appearance turns you on. The same is true for women, except it’s not about physical appearance for them. Just as we, men, are looking for visual cues to garner our attention, women are also searching for cues that get their attention. Those cues just happen to be traits that are not necessarily physical. And remember this, “attraction is not a choice.” If you display certain traits that are attractive to women, they have no choice but to feel an attraction towards you. And those top traits are exactly what’s listed above! So let’s get more in-depth about each quality and go into more detail what an attractive high value man is. Also make sure you read my past article on the differences between men and women when it comes to attraction. That background information will help you understand the material better.
1. Leader Of Men
This one is straight-forward. The most attractive male in any group is the leader. A take-charge attitude and a strong charisma is what a woman wants. She wants someone with a strong frame of mind who has friends that are willing to support him in any endeavors. The reason behind that is simple too. A man who is a leader of his social network would have lots of resources and physical support to provide for his family.
2. Preselection
No one wants to eat at a restaurant no one eats at. The same goes for anything, really. Why would a woman want to date someone who doesn’t attract women already? If a man has women already, he must possess attractive traits and that is why he is wanted. Also, women will feel safer around him, because he must know how to treat women and he is less of a threat. You do not want to be deemed as the creepy guy in the corner with no one around him. Plus, there’s the challenge aspect of it all. No one gains much intrinsic value from winning something that’s easy. Think about it. Your most cherished victories are from harder challenges. Girls are the same way. They want a challenge. They want a chase. They want to know they beat out other women.
3. Protector Of Loved Ones
Read “The Differences Between Men & Women When It Comes to Attraction.” If you don’t have the time to check that out, just know a woman wants to feel safe and secure and so she wants a man that can protect her and her children. It makes sense.
4. A Willingness To Emote
Basically a woman wants to know that you are emotionally wired correctly and you are not a potential psychopath. She wants a man that will respond with the correct emotions at the right times. A man that bursts into laughter when his girlfriend is crying is a clear red flag for trouble and an unattractive quality. Also, a willingness to emote means a willingness to sympathize and empathize. It means being able to match a woman’s intended vibe. In other words, if a woman is sending out happy signals, the man should be able to match that energy and emotion and not be a downer instead.
5. A Willingess To Walk Away
Any high value man will not take anything less than his standards. And that means he is able and willing to walk away from even a beautiful woman if that woman shows qualities or behaviors that he does not approve of. Once again, this quality creates a challenge and shows to earn his respect takes a lot. He understands that there are many beautiful women in the world and he has options, so why should he settle for anything less.
Soon enough we’ll get into how to display these qualities to attract the women you want to date.
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